So I went to the homo district to get myself drunk last night. To be honest, i didn't feel like going there at all as I had to get up early today but homo friends of mine wanted to have drinks as we hadn't done that together for some time. But the homo district is so walking distance from my place so I went there. Since I was tired, I got boozed reasonably. I was feeling great and what I talked about was hoot for them. I was
on fire. Suddenly, one of my homo friends talked about relationships. He and his prince started dating together last July and still counting. I was happy for him. He told me they went to get tested for HIV last week and turned out both are negative. The weird thing was that they have started having sex without any protection since the test results because they think they are fully healthy. He was like "what's the point of using a condom anymore?" I guess I am being so conservative about that then. I was really really drunk but that statement made me sober up in a nano second. Wow, that was an eye opener as he told me everybody around him follows that "perfect bareback" rules. I told him I could never do that if I were him. He looked very confused and told me I was weird... Seriously, that's none of my business and it's up to him. But people, please make absolutely sure for what you do. :-) That's all I am saying. After that get together, I went to another bar alone and had to drink more to get happy alcohol feelings back. I was happily drunk so I went up to the stage and sang a J-pop idol song in front of strangers. That was so not me... I hope I didn't make myself look like a fool. I know I did but... I needed that moment. :-) Anyway, you have a fantabulous weekend. So shall I!
I'm sure someone got your singin on cam? we will watch that online soon i'm sure:P:P:P i wish i was with you...i'm sure u had a blast...as for the earlier post...I really understand that puppy face...we tend to do it without noticing sometime just to get a better response...It reminds me of old guys when they try to be soft and helpless like in one of sex the city episodes when the Rusky guy was with Carry in front of a patisserie place in Paris, France and she got upset cos he is not gonna be with her that day so he gave her this puppy face..YUK! you see his old skin as an old dog gowing down his face...But then again he got through with it...As for the drawing..Ive seen more intresting puppy faces not that i dont like the drawing..actually im sure u can find them at a childs gifts store...you know those dogs with sad killing faces with their eyes falling down..UHHHH i so feel it right now...my heart is acking! anyway about the taking your post home its very easy...Or you take the picture like i did yesterday since you posted a picture (that included your writting)..or you save the whole internet page..this is very simple too..just save the page..actually it all depends on your browser...explorer, safari, netscape? i use safari and it works on all browsers indeed...i have taken your pages home before:P and u mentioned a hot guy while replying to me? whos he i didnt understand?have a cool week end!
Oh that guy on my post!!! sorry i was too slow to get it:P
Yeah, HIV is a real buzz killer, isn't it?
I saw a beautiful tote bag at the USPS today--it's got the old AIDS awareness stamp with the red ribbon on it. I also applaud the GAP's RED campaign. It's an easy way to promote awareness of AIDS, but I just hope people really understand that safe sex is responsible sex and vice versa. Like I said before on one of your earlier posts, people have to make condom use sexier and more fun, and not treat it as a hinderance to pleasure.
It really is scary how lax people are about HIV. Isn't it rising in Japan these days (and not due to blood transfusions)? The high school girls that will have sex with older men to get money to buy their designer handbags and clothes scare the hell out of me. I hope they insist on using condoms.
I think that you have the right attitude towards protection from HIV and AIDS, not your friend.
He better pray that his "prince" doesn't play around behind his back!
It only takes one time.....
Yeah. Tell your friend that the point of wearing condoms is that sometimes your Prince turns into a Cheating Cheater who Cheated Cheatfully [voice of experience, yo].
*smooches from London*
thats what i like about u.You sound reasonable even though u were drunk.. ;)
Buzz kill. It's interesting how you handled the situation. (Going to another bar and singing) You should have sung, "It's my Life" by Bon Jovi.
It is your life, and you obviously want to have one, happy and safe. If that's weird, put me on the list. Relationships between gays and straights are no different in that respect. Yeah, you're in a relationship but what if?
It's like halloween, verrrwy scarrrwy !!!!!! :-)
From a very wise public service announcement to a very drunk karaoke showdown, you're such a colorful and interesting person, Shigeki! I hope many people nominated you at gaybloggies like I did. You so deserve to win there! :-)
More curious on where this homo district is! :O In Japan?! WHOA!
Paul
I understand your concern, obviously, but when would it be appropriate? What if a couple was together for ten years and each believed the other was faithful? Could they go bareback THEN? It's a rough tradeoff, the responsibility for the trust.
HI NV,
hahaha. Old puppy dog face... :-) That would be so wrong. See, I know how old I am and I am trying to get rid of that technique from me as I am getting older. Oh, and thanks for the explanation of how you take it offline. I thought you were using some fantabulous thingy to do that. :-) But since you are doing something original, that's alright. The point is if it works, that's all it matters! You have a fantabulous week!
Hi GaijinGirl,
After my casual research, condom use is not so happening among homos here in Japan which was very surprising to know.. They didn't even know the difference between oil based and water based lube. They went "Really? I didn't know that". It is very rising here in Japan but there isn't much that they have done about it yet. I hope this will change before it's too late. You have a fantabulous week!
Hi Hanuman1960,
Well, if he is comfy and comfident enough with what he chooses to do, I think I am happy for him. But I can never do that. :-) You have a fantabulous week!
Hi Enviroboi/Vuboq,
Yup, it does happen. I've heard similar stories from friends before so. I hope your trip to London was awesome, and don't have a lot of difficulty to readjust your body clock! You have a fantabulous week!
Hi Makeurchoice,
Well, when I am hammered, I get so not understandable but it hasn't happened to me lately. :-) You have a fantabulous week!
Hi Maggie,
I rarely sing English songs when I am here in Japan because they don't understand it, you know. Instead, I go for some J-pop singing. :-) I guess it's only a matter of how you wanna deal with things. There is no right answer to it, I guess but for me, condomless is a deal breaker. :-) You have a fantabulous week!
Hi Mark,
Well, I guess I am a weirdo. That's all. :-) What's gaybloggies? But I would love to make my blog not so visible as I don't advertise this blog.. :-) There are so much more exciting homo blogs than this , you know? This blog will be always "non-exciting". :-) Thanks for your vote though. :-) You have a fantabulous week!
Hi Paul,
Well, there is one right near my place which is supposed to be the most popular homo district here in Japan. :-) You have a fantabulous week!
Hi Goblinbox,
I guess there is no right answer for everybody is what I am thinking. I mean for the last relationship, I could never be condomless so I so got used to the habit of wearing it. It's tough to answer your question but the trust only plays the role to decide whether you wanna go without it or not. I just don't know how/when to decide.... Thanks for your input! You have a fantabulous week!
I agree with you. Protection is a must in our world. You never know when the love of your live (or you ) will be tempted to stray.
One word to insist on using condoms. Mudtracks.
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