Sleeping alone can be so liberating! And there is so much more you can do & explore! I think best of all you don't have to be careful not to hurt your partners feelings. I'm a born meanie & tend to be mean to everyone...

OhMyGod!

I'm just going to bring my own chopstick rest the next time I go to a Chinese restaurant! The meal would be over by the time I got it to look like that! ;)

I'm glad that you're comfortable with where you are in your social life right now. The right guy will come along when you least expect it! :)

you are the origami king! :) i love sleeping alone. i always have enjoyed it. I love that i can take up the whole bed (i tend to sleep diagonally on the bed despite being short enough to not have to). i sleep much better than when i have company...except for naps. i nap quite happily with bran.

You've left out your left hand...

Not pathetic at all, Shigeki! Do what you want! You have a fantabulous weekend too.

1) Great sketch -- just love your drawings.

2) I just crumple the paper chopstick packaging in a ball and rest the chopsticks on the resulting oragami rock.

3) Single is and coupledom is -- enjoy the benefits (and face the challenges) of each as you find yourself in whichever category. Does no good to compare the two states of being.

Have a fantabulous weekend!

Hey, you're very good at explaining how to make that chopstick rest spot. It looks a bit like the Loch Ness monster to me! :-P

I love sleeping alone, especially in Summer!

Have a great weekend and check out my blog soon for an "origami" video I've just found ;o)

GB

Now I will never look at my right hand the same way again.

I'm not sure if I can ever sleep with someone. (well, been in relationships, but never really slept together for days)

I"m the type of person who needs a lot of personal space - especially at bed time. (plus I snore like crazy)

Shigeki, enjoy the freedom that being single allows. When you are ready, you will meet someone that you will want to share everything with, including your bed.
Life's funny like that. :-)
Have a Great Week-end !!

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Shigeki, You made me feel felt bad after me telling you about my......rude behavior. She wasn't so ugly and I don't consider myself so pretty. But......... I was so tired of being bullied by girls, that it just came out. Very uncharacteristic of me. I'm sure there is a bit of a bitch in all of us.

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."Oh, Gee. I do know how to get to Citibank, but I am not sure if I would be able to direct you in English. I don't have a lot of vocab. I wish I could help! Sorry."

Sometimes, once in a blue moon, we don't feel like smiling and wishing world peace to rude people. We're only human after all. :-)

GASP! Why! I like sleeping with someone.

Paul

Cool chopstick holder! I usually do the standard japanese way, you now, the kind of rest that looks a little like an AIDS or breast cancer awareness ribbon, you now? It's MUCH easier than the bird :)

I say be happy being single, and it sounds like you are happy. I never really liked sharing a bed, the next time I'm in a serious relationship, I may ask if he would sleep on the couch. No, that would be TOO mean, hehehe.

you know me...i'm wanting to be in a relationship but on the other hand there are a lot of people who now chooses to be single - straight or gay! So until I'm comfortable with myself... I'll be single until the right man comes by!
Great HK pictures.... love HK and would like to go back there again in the near future...need to finish the damn project at the end of the year and I'm free as a bird!

That's a charming sketch, Shigeki. Makes me wanna lie in bed next to that person. *hugs* for those lonely nights.

Thanks for the chopstick rest lesson. That is kind of cool.

I enjoy sleeping with someone next to me. But it has to be the riht person, if I can't be comfortable with you next to me then I won't invite you back :)

Hi AJ,

Yes, it's so liberating for sure. I totally feel secure when sleeping alone. So I guess I am totally okay with it. But sleeping with someone together is also great. I know you tend to be mean but you don't do that frequently, do ya? I am sure there is the lovely side of you in bed. Wanna try? :) You have a fantabulous day!

Hi Hanuman1960,

Hehehe, if you memorize how to fold the thing, you should be able to impress your friends. If you practice it three times, you will be perfect. :-) I am not so sure if the right guy ever shows up but I don't keep my hopes too high at the moment as it's summer and it's totally okay for me sleeping alone. :-) You have a fantabulous day!

Hi Naomi,

Hehehe. This is something I learnt from the back side of the chopstick pocket I got at some cheapy restaurant actually. I didn't invent it. I think I may have a double standard for sleeping in bed. Sometimes, I love sleeping with someone I love but most of the time, I love sleeping alone. :-) huh... I cannot decide.. You have a fantabulous day!

HI William,

um.... I could use the left hand for something else... I will think about it. :-) You have a fantabulous day!

Hi T.Kevin,

Oh yeah, I am totally comforable with sleeping alone but I don't think I would like to be too comfortable... :-) You have a fantabulous day!

HI Steve,

Thank you very much. I happen to draw things like that during a useless meeting. But I am not proud of it. :-) It's not really a lot of work to create that bird so you can beautifully do it and impress your friends. :-) That's so true that each has different benfits. But I remember sleeping on a couch as my boyfriend at that time kept kicking me... :-) You have a fantabulous day!

Hi GayBoyDiary,

Oh, Thank you very much. I hope it's not a scary monster because it's pretty. :-) Yes, sleeping alone in summer is definitely better. But if you have a decent Air Conditioned room, that's no problem, is it? :-) I hope your weekend was great. Have a fantabulous day!

HI Wayne,

Really? Well, my right hand is a convenient reasonable buddy as always. :-) I don't think there is anything wrong with sleeping alone even if you are in a relationship. I did that quite frequently when I was in one as my ex kept kicking me in bed. :-( I do, too, like my personal space. :-) You have a fantabulous day!

Hi Maggie,

I hope I will be able to run into somebody like that before I die. Yup. It would be fantabulous if I want to share everything with him as I too much respect my own space now. :-) Well, I am sorry that I made you feel bad. I didn't intend to do that. Absolutely, everybody has not-so-proud moments. I do,too. (gee, thanks for the quote. :-) But I have a legitimate reason as he grabbed my shoulder and almost ripped my shirt.) We are human beings after all. It's just one of natural things to do. :-) You have a fantabulous day!

Hi Paul,

um.... I like sleeping alone because I don't have to get up when I don't have to. And I don't have to give excuses when I am in a hurry and try not to do the morning sex when he needs it. :-) see, it doesn't look bad, does it? :-0 You have a fantabulous day!

Hi Fashmagslag,

Yes, That ribbon thingy is very common here in Japan but I like it to be very pretty so I usually make the bird out of it. :-) Hahaha. Asking your boyfriend to sleep on a couch is not a thing you might wanna do . :-) yes, I am happy and I think I have gotten afraid that I am too comfy being single so I wrote that but it doesn't concern me much anyway. :-) You have a fantabulous day!

Hi Ian,

Yes, I do know you have to be in a realtionship. :-) Well, the right man may not come to you unless you make a move. It cannot be said to every single case but sometimes you have to make a move. :-) I hope you will run into the fantabulous perfect guy any time soon. Being in a relationship is great since you get to learn a lot of things. :-) I am not against that. :-) You have a fantabulous day!

Hi Mark,

Thank you very much. There is a big difference between lonely and alone. I am alone. That's okay. But wait a minute, I must be lonely, too. huh.. :-) You have a fantabulous day! (Don't shop too much as you can do so in Oslo :-)

HI Cesar,

No problem at all. Yes, it's great to impress somebody you like. And you get to touch his hands if he wants to learn it from you. :-) I think I am not as picky as you are when it comes to sleeping next to somebody. :-) But I think I'd rather sleep alone these days. yup. You have a fantabulous day!

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