It was cold and icy this morning.... I almost fell when I ran... Anyway, My friends, my parents and family know I am queer But nobody at work knows I am gay, and I'd like to keep it that way as people are prejudice and "gayness" is not as acceptable as I'd like it to be in Japan. I am going to make a biz trip to Sapporo next week. So is the director. He suggested going to the red-light area at night while we're there. of course, straight one... I told him I'd rather not. Now, if he keeps asking me that, I might as well come out even if they stop talking to me. And what kind of director would ask me to go to a whore house together? People are so nosy here in Japan. But it occurred to me I act straight alright at work. Thanks to metrosexuals. But I find myself too gay...
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When I put chapstick on constantly even during the meeting.
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| 2. | When I use refreshing paper not to keep my face oily in the bathroom. |
| 3. | When I use washlet and moan for pleasure a little bit.
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| 4. | When I speak French. |
It may not take too long until I am forced to come out. I don't wanna act straight by going to a whore house together. I wonder if I get so ignored after coming out... I am very curious about it though. :-) On the bright side, if I do come out, I might be able to wear something gayer. :-) I hope HR department would approve that. Oh well. Life goes on. You have a pretty Wednesday!
Shigeki, just tell him that you are very religious and that a suggestion to go to a whorehouse is very offensive to you.Or if you want to come out to him just say "well I'd love to go with you, but I prefer to be the ONLY cocksucker in the room, and frankly that would be too much competition.
Just a thought... of course i live in a country where gay marriage is legal, so maybe my opinion is skewed a bit.
Well you have two course of action here:
1. Act straight and checked the whore house out! anyway, curiosity will get you by and I'm sure you know how to act it out! :-) Stay for a couple of hours, after awhile plead that you've an upset tummy and graciously extract yourself out of it and no one knows that you're gay! :-)
2. Act drunk before you walk in the whore house and throw up at the front of the steps! That way, you;re clear of getting in! :-)
Look at the bright side, you're out ....so that's great. Screw work! There are others who may not be that fortunate!
tu parles français? je ne le savais pas. où l'as-tu appris?
I can't even imagine having to choose between going to a whorehouse or coming out at work.
It hardly seems fair.
Good luck!
I have a washlet in my house. Very convenient item.
Cool blog, too. （`・ω・´）ゞ
Now I really want a washlet. If it makes Shigeki moan, it's good enough for me!
And are there male whorehouses in Sapporo? Gosh. Are you that close to your director, until he invites you to go have sex? OMG.
Oh well, I was asked to go to a whorehouse by my captain before.
Speaking french is gay?
Speaking French? :O
BTW, you could say you're seriously attached and going to a whorehouse would be demeaning to your relationship.
Paul
How about saying something like
1. You are super sappy sentimental & as you are deeply in love with someone, you cant go to places like that.
2. You caught a horrible STD from a place like that before (but you've 100% recovered) & will never go back
3. Your a flaming queer & rather suck him off...
I personally like no 3 but I think you wanna keep your job, neh?
I want a Washlet too!
Well Shigeki, I think you should be able to bow out of the whorehouse without seeming gay but I don't know that much about Japanes culture... I thought Japanese were not nosey!
I am aout to most people at work and everyone has been great. They all were shocked though. I guess I am butchier than I thought. :-)
TK
Hi Mark from Canada,
Thanks very much for you suggestion. :) That is a great idea though he is so not cute so I don't think I could say the second suggestion you made. :) Well, I live in a country where gayness is non-existant. But your opinion is very well made. Thanks! You have a fantabulous day!
Hi Ian,
Well, I don't like the idea of doing something together with the director since I completely keep my work life separate from my personal life, you know. And the second option you suggested is so gross. :) To be honest, I have never thrown up after drinking too much... I felt throwing up but that's the furthest I got. I guess I know my limit... :) You have a wonderful day!
Hi Raph,
If I translate it with my little brain, it means You Speak French? I didn't know.. Where did you learn? To answer that, I don't speak French like I speak English. My French is sucky. But I took some French classes in college and a three month program in Paris... :) I am hoping I can speak it better though. Good day!
HI Mush,
I guess I was a little extreme? I don't know... :) But these are the only options I came up with. I am sure I'd die if I had to have sex with a lady there. But coming out at work doesn't sound too intriguing. But, I don't wanna pretend I am an innocent straight or anything. :) LIfe is unfair. yes...Thankee! You have a pleasant day!
Hi Seekeronos,
Welcome to my site! I see you are in NY, U.S.A. and you have a washlet. That's so great. I hope you are not spending too much time on it though. :) But the president in the former company I worked for even imported a Washlet from Japan. So considering that, there is a bigger market in NY? :) You have a good day!
Hi Will,
Oh yeah, it does make you moan quite alright if it hits the right place. :) Okay, I should stop talking like this then. :) But considering you have a boyfriend, you can live without it. :) I don't think there are male whorehouses in Sapporo. I am not close to the director while I pretend/appear to be.... I wonder how you got out of that whore house tour invitation.... You have a splendid day!
Hi Ca va pas la tete,
No, I don't think speaking French is gay. The way I speak/pronounce French is. :) Good day!
Hi Paul,
Oh yeah, speaking French with a thick accent. Paul, that's actually a simple great way to get out of that situation. Then, they will start asking me whom I am dating with....oh.... Life is hard. :) Thanks for the suggestion though! Have a marvelous day!
Hi AJ,
Thanks for listing the advice, sweetie. :) As for #1, that's a lie and they will keep asking me about the date or anything. you know. #2... hmmm..... I am not that close to the director to discuss my STD situations. :) #3. I could say that but I CAN'T suck him off. No, I won't. ew. ;) Well, I'd be delighed to get canned actually though. :) You have a fantabulous day!
Hi Kevin,
Seems like Washlets are sold in NYC so I guess you could get one of them easily? But they are kinda pricey for sure... I guess I am not thiking enough to come up with a great solution to get out of that whorehouse situation. hmm... I will think about that today as I have so much train ride to do. Well, I think it's great to get "Seriously? I didn't know!" answer instead of "Oh, I so KNEW IT!" :) have a wonderful day!
Shigeki- chapstick isn't gay or metrosexual, it's a skier's necessity. Funny that people from Japan don't like the smell of sweat 'cuz I don't notice it at all. I only notice strong body odor from people who do not use deodorant or shower frequently. I do wash my face alot in the summer though 'cuz I hate that oily feeling.
HI Gregg,
I totally understand chapctick isn't gay at alll but the way I do put chapstick on is gay. :) I really have to make it subtle but cannot do it! ugh!