So I tried to get a hold of the guy from yesterday but obviously, I couldn't as my cellular phone was blocked on his. This morning, I got many e-mails from people I am not familiar wtih. It turns out the guy exaggerated the whole thing while he talked to his friends. Basically, they told me I hurt him so badly and don't deserve him. Okay, that's impressive that they can tell me what to do and what not to do without hearing my side of the story. Anyway, I am too tired to deal with this thing so I just deleted them all and left for work. I started to get calls on my cell with an unidentified number and s/he hangs up after I just pick up... I have a feeling who that would be so I decided to block unidentified number after 10 calls. I didn't mean to end things this way but he obviously took my move in a different way. Oh well, I don't even bother to correct misunderstading or any other fudged things.... Anyway, it was not a pleasant morning but I got to know i had a shipping from Shimane, the west part of Japan.
GaijnGirl from Shimane got me this sweet stuff from Okinawa as she went on a school trip earlier!! The name of the thing is called "Chinsuko" and it's very close to how to pronounce "weener". She is such a sweetheart to do this for me and it's the perfect moment Ito make my day much better. I have never been to Okinawa before but I hope I can some time. Thank you, GAIJINGIRL! I love ya! On a different note, since my date is cancelled tomorrow (I think it is. I haven't confirmed but can't), I think I will just go to work and do things as usual. The odd thing of all is I am not really sad at all. I am kind of
relieved. I guess I am not a marrying kind... Anyway, thanks for stopping by and you have a fantabulous weekend!
Oh...I should have sent you the chocolate covered ones, so that it would really fit in with the fudged day theme. Seeing the photo on your blog put a smile on my face--thanks! It's been hard to smile these days, but I'm gonna try my best to be as genki as possible. That's why I love your blog so much--no matter how bad or how serious things are, you always seem to be able to stay upbeat. Love ya, Shigeki-chama!!!!!!!
it sounds as if you got out of that one before it got a lot more creepy. i mean, i'm sorry that it didn't turn out well and that things ended the way they did. but, if the guy you've been dating has been feeling like that only after a month, imagine how possessive he could have gotten. it's only been a month!! and also, it just shows you what kind of person that guy was if he got all his friends to harass you over e-mail.
shigeki-kun, you have a great weekend!
Oh dear. I am very sorry about what happened. You certainly didn't deserve all those harassment and fudged-up treatment. I wasn't expecting some reaction like that from him, I was secretly hoping that you'd patch things up and move further together. Well, I guess it's a blessing in disguise that you went out for breakfast yesterday. That made you see the real him.
Don't worry, Shigeki, you'll be just fine. Just keep smiling and good things will go your way! :-)
Oh that was lame. Gosh, only the low of the lowest would do those cellphone crap. ARGH. You know what? Since you already blocked the number....
Last time I got a prank call from some woman offering sex toys and crap on the phone, I later posted her phone number on a message board.
I bet a lot of horny freaks called her up and harrassed the crap out of her.
shigeki- That's too bad about the exaggeration. He probably conveniently forgot to tell every one that he stormed off and left you incommunicado.
I think your better off without him; if he's going to be that much of a pain in the ass then he's not worth it. One of my friends is a bit like that, he can't seem to understand that in my job sometime i have to work late at short notice and he get angry at me if I don't see him every few days, we ended up having an argument about it and he didn't speak to me for a few weeks but eventually I think it sunk into his head that balancing your life between work, family and friends is hard work sometimes and especially after a hard day in the office you just want to go home and rest.
Look after yourself :o)
James
Oh honey...sorry things turned out this way...here in KL we can't block numbers (yet) so this is fascinating...Just move on with your life I guess. I hope you didn't invest too much feelings in him and don't blame yourself.
Hi GaijinGirl,
Hehehe. There is chocolate covered version?? wow, but I think I'd rather not have chocolate on them. :-) I am sorry that you are having a great moment right now but I hope things will pick up and will be fantabulous. Good luck on your studying! Happy weekend! Ganbatte!
Hi Raph,
Well, he isn't the last guy in my life (hopefully) so, I am A okay. :-) I mean I had no idea he would be this creepy. On the other hand, I just got to realize I am not really ready for a next serious thingy yet. I guess I will just see how my life is going to be. :-) Thanks for stopping by and you have a great weekend!
Hi Mark,
Thanks. I wasn't really expecting all of those either but it turns out this guy was creepy. Oh well. I am not really devastated though am very relieved. Part of me always thought there was something wrong with this. Now, I got to see it. :-) Anyway, get ready for HK and don't forget anything you haven't packed! Good weekend!
HI Wayne,
Oh yeah, it certainly was. :-) hehehe that was funny though I don't think I do even bother to post his phone number on a message board. I might get killed if I did that. :-) But there are some freaks out there. You'd better watch out! so will I! have a good weekend!
Hi Gregg,
I know some people like exaggerating things very much. But that's how the life goes, I guess. I am sure he did forget that part but you know that's so alright. I hope he will meet someone more compatible than I am. :-) you have a great weekend!
HI James,
Some people need exclusive attention, I guess. Although I don't like that part of my job, it's inevitable, you know. :-) But your friend is kinda interesting.... I am hoping he has understood more about your work. Anyway, thanks for your input and you have a pleasant weekend!
Hi Will,
That's so okay. :-) hehehe, blocking numbers can be really convenient if you use it under certain circumstances. But they can be a tool to bitch someone. :-) I think I have moved on already and am not looking for anything creepy right now. :-) Thanks for your support and you have a pleasant weekend!